@ O'Connor Yes I am a Hygiene Freak..LOL
LOL..Yes I am a Hygiene Freak now, due mostly to the fact when I was in my 20's a very sick man came into work and paid me back money he owed me. When he handed me the money it was soaked in sweat from him being so sick. Of course being so young I took the money, put it in pockets and didn't wash my hands.
With-in a week I contracted his Viral Pneumonia! I was in the Hospital, and almost died! I missed 6 weeks of work! I have permenant scarring on my left lung from the event and it reduced some of my oxygen capacity, not enough to notice, but the scarring will forever be there! Needless to say that changed my life and my Habits, I am now a Hygiene Freak!!
My Wife loves to Game but I don't want her touching my Controller either. The clue to solving this!!! Let her go shopping for a controller she likes! My wife loved the Fable 3 controller and she bought it. Every Once in a while, I tell her how jealous I am of her controller (secretly I do this to make her happy with her purchase even more). So let her get a controller she likes, and compliment it all the time...this will keep her from ever wanting yours!!!
Quite some time ago, right after getting sick, I came up with the Idea of creating "Gamer Wipes" controller safe wipes that you could use on your controllers and such. Imagine a Box of Gamer Wipes with the outside box have Gamer Art work on it from your Fave Games like Zelda, Mario, Gears, Halo, Killzone, Call of Duty, and such..and inside the packaged wipes having Game Art work as well. Gamers would buy this just for the artwork alone. I understand the logistics are not that simple with licenses and such, but I have submitted the idea to the maker of Wet Ones! So who knows?
So for Olivia, let her shop online, or go to any store she wants and let her pick out her fave controller, and just pay the price, and just compliment it, and she won't want yours anymore.
Oh and when my wife gets sick, and she wants the remotes, I just pop them in a simple Ziplock bag...and she can use them. LOL